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I am a money coach and business consultant. With an extensive background in education, I’m passionate about teaching young adults how to manage their personal finances, pay out college debt, and save money. I write about financial planning strategies and academic success tips at Technology Around Me.
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Inspiration for a New Beginning

Inspiration for A new beginning
Published on July 14, 2018

“Start by doing what’s necessary; then do what’s possible; and suddenly you are doing the impossible.” ~Saint Francis of Assisi

Many of us are currently starting new chapters in different areas of our lives. Whether it is moving into a new home, starting a new job, having a baby, starting a new business, or beginning a new relationship, embarking on a new adventure requires energy, dedication, stability of focus, and clarity of vision. Very often, it is the idea of starting something new that seems frightening to us. As we take the first step, the unknown territory gradually becomes more familiar and we begin to enjoy the process.

How To Make The First Step

How can we bring ourselves to make this first step? I think the above quote by Saint Francis sums it up. The desire for something new is usually born out of necessity for change. Ironically, the unhappier we are now the more energized and motivated we are to change something. At a certain point, current situation becomes so intolerable that the necessity of an adjustment becomes apparent. This is a turning point, when we start to take the necessary action steps to bring about the new vision.

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The discomfort that is felt just before this turning point contains very useful information about what we want to have instead. This information can be used to create a vision for the future. The clearer this vision is, the more energy and motivation we can garner for making this transition. By experiencing this temporary pressure, uneasiness, impatience, or lack, we can crystallize our desire and inform our vision for the future.

Therefore,

the best way to see any discomfort is like an inspiration for change and a precursor to something new that is about to be born.Click To Tweet It shows us where the change is necessary.

The 3-Step Process to Initiate Change

A transition process is a process of trusting that you are doing your best every day by taking small steps. Taking these steps has a cumulative effect that eventually shifts the quality of an experience. This is clearly observed in learning to drive a car, play an instrument, or ride a bike.

I like to put it into a 3-step practical process of asking myself these three questions:

  1. What needs to be changed in my life right now?
  2. What is the next step I can take in the direction of change and expansion in this area?
  3. What other opportunities are available?

In this article on How to Support Yourself During A Time of Change, I provided a questionnaire that helps to evaluate you level of stress that comes from change and five ways to support yourself throughout this process.

Inspiration for a New Beginning

This poem from John O’Donohue’s book To Bless the Space Between Us is a perfect inspiration for a new beginning. It can be helpful as we prepare for what’s coming next. It emphasizes trust, grace, and listening to the rhythm of what is unfolding in our lives.

For A New Beginning

In out-of-the-way places of the heart,
Where your thoughts never think to wander,
This beginning has been quietly forming,
Waiting until you were ready to emerge.

For a long time it has watched your desire,
Feeling the emptiness grow inside you,
Noticing how you willed yourself on,
Still unable to leave what you had outgrown.

It watched you play with the seduction of safety
And the grey promises that sameness whispered,
Heard the waves of turmoil rise and relent,
Wondered would you always live like this.

Then the delight, when your courage kindled,
And out you stepped onto new ground,
Your eyes young again with energy and dream,
A path of plenitude opening before you.

Though your destination is not clear
You can trust the promise of this opening;
Unfurl yourself into the grace of beginning
That is one with your life’s desire.

Awaken your spirit to adventure;
Hold nothing back, learn to find ease in risk;
Soon you will be home in a new rhythm,
For your soul senses the world that awaits you.

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How to Use Affirmations to Increase Your Money Flow

2018-06-20

Have you ever heard about or used affirmations? Last week, I was interviewed by a friend and fellow freelance writer, Jenna Joanitis, on the topic of using affirmations to improve your mood and productivity. Chatting with Jenna reminded me of this powerful tool for intentionally changing our subconscious beliefs. Louise Hay, a visionary author and the founder of Hay House, pioneered this work in the 1970s. I like using personal affirmations to rewrite my story and create the life I want because it’s such a simple, yet effective technique.

New Moon in Pisces on March 17, 2018 – Letting Go and Affirming Your Life

2018-03-17

Sun and Moon meet Chiron in Pisces in the skies. We are releasing the victimhood stories of pain and suffering and replacing them with a new story. Starting from now, we can see our lives in a completely new light. We go back at our lives and collectively let go of the past and move from pain and divisiveness to happiness and wholeness. It is time to heal all the wounds.

In the meanwhile, we can be shown situations that no longer serve us because we’ve outgrown them. We are shown what needs healing. This lunar month, we can use the cosmic energies to meditate and tune into releasing all our pain. Karmic wounds that involve the closest family members may surface. Family stories may com to the surface to be healed. Approach these situations with wisdom and grace. If they surface and request your attention in your memories or in real life, meet them with kindness, objectivity, and detachment. Remember that this is an opportunity for acceptance, healing, and letting go.

At the same time, Pisces makes us vulnerable and emotional. It doesn’t mean that it will be easy to stay graceful and detached. This month, we can consciously work with the element of water to release the past. As we are able to release old grievances and rewrite our old stories, we become wiser and more connected to our spiritual essence.

Praise

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CHRIS

“Tanya, this is some kind of a miracle! I’m enjoying observing this process so much, although a lot of negative feelings come up… Words cannot describe how grateful I am to you! “

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JASMINE

“I’m happy to report that I have resolved my issues around the abstract thought, visualization and experience of taking action.  This has been the issue I’ve been working on for the past 6 months and I’m so happy to be finally rid of it. Thank you for all your help!”